2016 a New Year - getting out of my own fog

[Irish M]

So I am working on more than a letter now. I contacted my internet provider to get the records of all emails between myself, the girls and my STBXW. No negative, mean, vulgar or abusive emails were ever sent. I never doubted my D's.

I am holding off because I received another letter from her lawyer. Claiming she left the house with only her personal belongings and nothing else. No furniture.

Man did I laugh. I slept on a Coleman mattress for 3 months because I furnished my D's rooms and kitchen before thinking of my own comfort. My clothes were in boxes and bags on the floor.

I have a detailed list of what she took she even signed off on it. How can she not remember what she took. She did lose it all when she bailed out on her apartment and left all her furniture there so I figure she is right . She only has her personal belongings now. But that's her problem. Now claiming I have a financial advantage of so many thousand of dollars over her.

Still no wanting to see the D's or work on a relationship. Its still all about money.

W was one that money had no meaning. It was not important. Material things were meaningless to her. She would of lived in a shack by the lake. No electricity or electronics. So far now from that thinking.

I continue my path on guiding the D's to have happy, non anger lives without their mom. My STBXW will have her own work to do to fix this mess she created. I wish her luck.