We put the WAS on a pedestal and instantly forget all the sh!tty things they've done.
I actually had my best friend remind me of all the things I had complained about WAW. It was like I had amnesia. I could only remember all the good things, times, and endearing moments.
And then I blamed myself for all the crap I did to ruin our relationship. It's awful. But logically we know that we aren't solely responsible for the break up. But when you have the WAS up on that pedestal, it is really hard to not blame ourselves.
