Also...I will say that being certain of the EA/PA would probably prompt one major change.
I think I would no longer go along with our current situation as is. We would need immediate intervention in MC to start making headway. If the EA/PA didn't end immediately....I would make sure that we separate and put up boundaries to protect myself and my girls.
Those are the reasons I have for wanting to 'know'. It wouldn't change my 180 or GAL....but would change parts of how I am working on our MR.
Good plan. You can't be blind. You have to know what you're dealing with or you don't have a chance.
