Hi Kiwi, I said I would drop by and say Hi! Glad you've started posting and are receiving some helpful responses. There are similarities in our sitches - apart from H and I have no kids together, but I have been very involved in SS's life from age 4 to 14 when we S. I keep in touch with SS still.
It sounds as though you have been doing pretty well in difficult circumstances. I sympathise with having OW around the kids, which must be a hard thing to take. Also, I find it a bit odd to be engaged to someone else before your own marital situation is resolved....what's that all about?? Ah, MLC of course. Only the MLCer (or love-addict sociopath) would see no problem with that.. As for your kids, I think it's a good thing that their Dad shows some interest - even if it comes with OW in the sidecar. I know that must be pretty rough for you, but they have been 'established' for some time now and I guess it was always going to happen. ((((((Big hug))))
Anyway, just wanted to say welcome & wish you well with things xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
