Thanks TimR!!

It's always good to get another perspective, well as much as you can gleam from MY post.

I agree with you that the OM is ending the A or at least not willing to move here. That still doesn't change the 1+ Year she has been convincing herself that she doesn't love me. I am working on detaching still and no contact, it's not easy with her still in the house. I'm not complaining, from what it sounds like having her still in the house is a good thing. I think?

Interesting, she has been texting me allot more during work hour the last two days with questions that could wait until I get home. I don't reply, I will answer the questions when I get home.