I accused the wife of the same, guys. Said she wasn't trying at all b/c we had been in MC for a few months and things were still going downhill.
Her reply: "How can I not be trying?! I don't have a desire to be here (with you), but I am staying! I am on 3 medications to help me not 'feel'! (her anti-depressants). How can you say I'm not trying?!!" I'm the one who is 'wrong', so I need all the help! Me! I'm the problem...and I'm trying! I don't want to feel the way I do, but I can't help it. It is how I feel and I shouldn't feel bad about that!"
Ojap M 13 T 15 D 11 D 11 D 9 BD #1: ILYBNILWY 09/2015 BD #2: W asks for S 12/2015 ---------- Currently: Limbo
