Sandi...it sounds like you are thinking my W is a WW? Based solely on the info I've provided. And thus...it won't make any difference. Got it.
One thing I wrote earlier is that her 'complete shut off' and 'depression' came right at the same time that this 'colleague' moved to TX. I absolutely never made that connection until I wrote the post earlier today.
It makes me wonder if there was some sort of EA prior and now she is mourning the loss of it. Obviously I'm still speculating, etc. Wish I could re-focus my efforts/energies. It is just one of those things where I have suspected something for over a year....and have only found circumstantial evidence...nothing stone cold.
My heart is racing even as I type this. Ridiculous, I know
Ojap M 13 T 15 D 11 D 11 D 9 BD #1: ILYBNILWY 09/2015 BD #2: W asks for S 12/2015 ---------- Currently: Limbo