Hi mb I've been taking a time out and focusing on work
I've got to agree with the others that you need to maintain no contact for your own wellbeing The reality is if he wanted to reach out to you he will and if you initiate you will appear to be pursuing and could make things worse Your not to blame for anything that happens in his life you got 'sacked' for want of a better word Focus on you keep at IC and detaching
One of the things I'm working on with my IC is learning to say no to things that will cause me anxiety and stress and that I don't need to fix everything. It's ok to validate and listen and realise that people need to fix their own problems and not let it drag me down
Keep posting and having faith in yourself we are all good people who are learning and growing and taking responsibility for our actions and mistakes. I don't see anyone here re writing marriage history or blaming their spouse.
I hope to hear your out having fun and getting better let's see that smile light up the world!
