I wish I had known this sooner. W told our MC in a private session that she "had feelings for someone else" in August. I had NO idea until November. I lost three months, while their EA deepened and at some point became physical. We continued MC deep into December. Then I realized how angry I was that I was the only one in the room who didn't know what was going on for three months. I felt it was a complete waste of money. The only thing that makes me think we still have a chance is all the DB advice and me being able to remain mostly calm and not become a raging lunatic (in her presence, LOL).
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
