Still NC - Who is Thornton?

[HopeRB]

And God is giving you exactly the problems that you need, in order to fix yourself....

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I would second PPs comments on practicing gratitude. That has helped me a lot since BD. When I catch myself feeling low....I catch myself quick and say - what am I thankful for?? List it every day!!

You begin to feel blessed rather than cursed.

This is great advice! Both of these points have been revelations to me and are literally what keep me going everyday. It's a reason I can accept as the answer to all of this, and really helps me to stand up and shake it off in the tougher moments.