1. I want to know what I want 2. I want to feel confident in my own ability to tackle life's issues without having to lean on anyone. 3. I want to be interesting and well rounded 4. I want to be fearless (or able to overcome my fear more easily) 5. I want to be successful in my career 6. I want to be a better father 7. I want to be a better friend 8. I want to be a leader