Thanks for the kick in the gut TimR. Needed it....every question you asked...I obsess over. It frustrating...b/c I was NEVER that guy. How did I become so CO-DEPENDANT!

So...after checking out Thornton's thread...I'm thinking I want to marinate on some big picture goals...followed by some action oriented smaller ones I can accomplish to get the ball rolling.

Ojap
M 13 T 15
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BD #1: ILYBNILWY 09/2015
BD #2: W asks for S 12/2015
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Currently: Limbo