W and I talked a little this afternoon as I am preparing our tax stuff and I could see my W is stressed about it. Told her I'll deal with it all. We had also talked about the MC and that after three sessions she still hasn't said anything to help bring us back together. it's true, we are both surprised the MC hasn't offered any tools or advice yet to help us begin to start bringing us closer again. We are considering moving to another counselor. After that, my W and I ended up hugging for a minute (I did initiate that but I think we both needed it at that moment). Hope I didn't do something to set back my wife's hopeful re-attraction for me - I realize I have to make her think I'm moving on (detaching) but at the same time we are trying to repair our marriage and sometimes we need to support each other. It's our sons birthday today as well and I would like us to be in better frame of mind (working together rather than apart if that makes any sense).
