So, if he isn't talking to ow any more, am I still supposed to stay NC with him? Would it be bad if I went to see him or talked to him now? It wouldn't be pushing him toward ow if she's not around. But, would it still push him away? I still can't get past thinking that he's going to blame it all on me though. If that's the case, he may never want to talk to me.

I already know my thoughts on this, and the thoughts of my friends. I was hoping to get opinions or advice from others to see what you guys think.


M:45 H:48
M:11
No kids
BD:Sept'15
EA:Confirmed 1wk later
PA: Oct'15
12 '15 2 wk R
Just kidding, H wants NC
12 '15 H back w/OW
4 '15 R &still working on it