I think that's possible. I think that's what my WAW did. I have no evidence of OM. No secrecy with her phone, nothing out of the norm.

But what I did notice was when we would make some headway in therapy, she would literally pick a fight with me over something silly. This would create distance again in the R. This was a pattern for about 2 months every week until the bomb.

She then blamed me for everything.