Those expectations will kill ya. I had some expectations as well. I thought because W hadn't moved her stuff out of our house in a month, that maybe she was leaving it there because she was doubting her decision to leave.
I stopped by the house yesterday, and her D8's room was completely empty. I felt like I had been kicked in the stomach by a mule. Last night I was a mess. Lesson learned.
Im getting some great advice on my thread about working on me. You should check it out.
In the meantime, you are still early on in your sitch. Try your best to worry about you for the time being. H hasn't forgotten about you after 11 years together. Clearly he has a ton of issues that he's dealing with.
