I have put all of the weight back on and more. Had a ordeal with my both parents getting very sick and I just kind of shutdown. Let myself go. I guess maybe I have the attraction thing maybe going for me as I have lost about a third of what i need right now. When we filled out a questionnaire at MC last time, her number one thing was physical attraction for opposite sex.She dresses the same but changed hair style. Doesnt go out partying so doesnt stay out late. She did seem restless 8 years ago. She has said that I hold her back from life. I am not possessive. We both had our social lives and enjoyment that neither questioned. I am an introvert, she an extreme extrovert so there was problem. She liked to go out with other couples, I did not(stressful). She did say that she didnt want to wake up at age 60 and ask, "Is this all there is?" Not a great loss but a relative very close to us had and accidental shooting kill someone and is now in prison. Really hit her hard. Nothing comes to mind about childhood issues but I'm sure there is something there if she claims to be so co-dependent.
Edit above post, she did lose a close friend back in novemeber, yes.
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Me-50 WAW-45 S13 Married 24 years Bomb 1-Jan.2008 Disc. EA She came back for 8 years Bomb 2-Jan-2016 Separation 3-12-2016
