So...are all these EA/PA red flags also red flags for clinical depression and the loneliness she is struggling with?
I am no authority on it. From what I have read, I would say the W does not have to be depressed or feeling lonely.
I think depression can present itself in different ways. So you may think it is not depression when in fact it is. It could present as manic-depressive, how do you really know what is going on inside someones head?
She is struggling with something and the odds are that it is not something YOU caused.