Quote: Are both of you interested in making a great marriage, together?
Yes, I'm quite certain of that. We probably don't agree on the most likely strategy for accomplishing that.
Quote: If so, then both of you should find a therapist that is solution oriented. It should show some results pretty quickly.
Well, that's what I think. But how do I convince her of that? For instance, are there good statistics out there that would demonstrate which approaches work best? My wife is very intelligent and can understand research data, but she (and actually both of us) are skeptical of things that are not based on solid evidence.
Quote: Good luck! I understand the attraction of other women. It just amazes me that LD women don't see that they are DRIVING us to cheat on them.
That almost sounds like it's entirely her fault. I don't think so. It's very difficult, very difficult indeed, but I'm still responsible for my own behavior. And I don't intend to cheat.
