I've got to admit, I have mixed feeling about her sending that to him. It feels good that she seems to be making an effort towards what I set as something I needed. On the other hand, I feel like I should have been involved in it so I know exactly what was said and how it went down. The way it happened, how do I know it wasn't discussed between them and he calls me as a front?

I want to see it as positive but I find myself second guessing the genuineness of it because I didn't see it happen.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home