Ojap's Story

[Ojap]

I think you are prob right, Tim. Father gave me similar advice. Stated that if she is indeed in an A, that it will eventually come out. That I need to work on myself, and my relationship w/ my kids. Make myself and them the priority.

Although I KNOW this to be the right course of action...it is still tough to 'shake off' the suspicion and work towards personal goals.

The 'phone' thing does get to the heart of our respective issues. For W, it is her becoming independent, assertive, and not controlled or manipulated by me. For me, it is the fear of losing her, not having her love, betrayal, and the destruction of our family unit.

Trying to decide if I should bring it up in MC or not...Hmmmm