I have tried therapy on this issue several times, but I haven't found anything particularly useful to discuss with a therapist on the topic. A therapist can help me see that I'm frustrated, which I already know. So I haven't found a useful goal for therapy that involves only me.
Something deep inside me says that both of us have to work together on this. Each of us talking to our own separate therapist ... we've been there enough times, and it hasn't helped.
And I do think the relationship has changed an awful lot, in good ways, since we last tried anything close to sex.
