One question I do have for anybody here. At this point and time, her birthday is coming up. Do I still ignore it as DB suggests? Or do I maybe acknowledge it with a text or card? Just no real sure with the way things are what would be best.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home