Therapy should not take years and get nothing accomplished. She is apparently wasting time with the therapists she is seeing. Are both of you interested in making a great marriage, together? If so, then both of you should find a therapist that is solution oriented. It should show some results pretty quickly. THe goal is to find a marriage that is great for both of you, and everything is on the table. If she can not make a commitment to that, you pretty much have a tough decision to make. As long as two people make a commitment to try and build a great marriage together, and then act upon that, your halfway home. But if she can not make a commitment to have a great marraige, then honstly, why would you want to waste your time with a women that obviously does not care?
Good luck! I understand the attraction of other women. It just amazes me that LD women don't see that they are DRIVING us to cheat on them.
