Just stopping in with an update on what has been transpiring in my life. XF and myself have been much more friendly this week. The random texts and occasional phone call not having to do with S4. Still not sure exactly how I feel so I will just roll with whatever feels right.
I was contacted by the OM who stuck himself in the middle for a short time. He recieved a no contact email from her (she did that on her own, I mentioned that he would have to be gone forever and that is how she responded to it). He claims he wanted me to know that he is no longer a threat and wanted to try to explain himself and why he did what he did, I replied that if he really was half the man he claimed to be he wouldn't have done what he did. Explained that the best apology I can receive is change of actions. I wouldn't say I was rude, but I defiantly voiced my displeasure.
Anyways, that's my life right now. Seems to be an effort on her part? See where it leads...
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home