Hi Sotto and PP. great to hear from you both Re the 6 month thing , I think IC wants to give W time and believes W is coming forward very slowly Who knows ?
PP , you are so right ( except for the successful bit ) I always have a plan and I like to think I can get anything done and don't let much get in my way However with my R I picked a road and I have no idea if it's right or wrong.
I won't be hurt like this ever again , by anyone so that rules out a new R with W and no serious Rs with anyone Obviously never say never but ............
We are all different and I follow the DB way as best I can. I can ( possibly ) appear to W as being a doormat where kids are concerned but this is my choice and its not done to influence W. I still love W and from her actions I believe she will want to come home one day but I can't see it happening due to my insecurities
The only DB thing I haven't done is keep the road home smooth. I don't discuss R and even when W has apologised for her actions and words I just say it's in the past now
Thanks again for posting and PP I would love an update