Pajo, read and reread the threads on pursuer and distance relationships. Also look at the book ... That may help you. The more you read the more you will understand. As GI Joe would say, Knowing is half the battle. Make sure to read, read, read... then act accordingly although counter intuitively.

Work through the DR and DB books don't just read. Think about your goals, think about the road signs and think about your 180's. Decide what you will try and then when doing them monitor. It maybe the slightest sign of working or it may be big signs of not working. Then rework your approach.

There are vets on here that can give you far better advice, than I. Listen to them. Finally, read others threads maybe you will see a mistake they make and can stop yourself from making the same mistake.

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