Not sure where to stand

[Sparkls]

I honestly have no idea. I will be moving to much more desirable locations for residency. The BF was excited about it a while ago, but he's been pulling away for at least the last 9 months and thus, any time I"ve tried to get his input, he just says he'll be happy with wherever.
My IC wonders if some component of this is fear over the change in roles to becoming the doctors husband rather than the med student's boyfriend and is there some sense of inadequacy and fear over the change in roles.
What it means for any sort of R or DBing is that in 3 months, I'm moving. I don't have quite the luxury of time. But I also have a chance for a complete fresh start, which is appealing / terrifying. I had originally thought of it as a fresh start for both of us, cause he could quit the job he hates and start doing something he loves without the worry of having to support us. But he's having some components of a MLC in that he's not sure what he wants to do anymore. (the plan had been to work at like a video game store for a year or two then start a family and he wanted to be a stay at home dad).