Sandi's Reflections

[daybyday]

We have discussed expectations. We have one S13. I am 50 she is 45. We will split custody. It is a six month lease so we agreed to revisit it then. I don't doubt that at this time she is probably doing it to ease me into divorce. Details worked out ourselves. It was my idea about no dating, because we are technically still married. I know her words may be just that at the moment. All makes sense Sandi. Your description of her and WAW is right on. I understand about taking it slow, being friendly, and build a rapport. She didnt say mean to her as much as she didnt like me for many reasons. I will definitely work on my issues. I agree that she may just be placating me with separation. That's why I have to GAL. All makes great sense Sandi. Now, is there any hope? How big of a player is physical attraction in the whole situation? The only reason I ask is that 8 years ago I was overweight and had lost 60 lbs. and that seemed to help bring her back. I know that wasnt all but...So, thats again where I am. Overweight and I'm sure she isnt physically attracted to me. I realize that her issues with me go deeper than looks, but does it play a part? We talked for a long long time about stuff that was never brought up before. Grievances, some misconceptions, stuff we each need work on.