Sorry for slow reply. I am consciously not here as often.You know all the great points of this community so it is nothing against here. I am trying to focus on other stuff and at times it is disheartening to see others struggle here. I owe you and the rest of the DB clan for getting me this far. I'll pay that forward when the time is right for me.
I am glad my questions got you to open up. The questions I asked were just curiousity and nothing major. Just trying to get a better feel for your situation .
I don't have time to comment on everything you wrote,so I'll just mention your realisation about the finish line. I agree and disagree.dB and our improvements are ongoing for life, so they should be continuous.I think that our M should be seen more as a stage event. Once one stage is completed we continue onto the next.
Glad you are having fun
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together