Sorry for slow reply. I am consciously not here as often.You know all the great points of this community so it is nothing against here. I am trying to focus on other stuff and at times it is disheartening to see others struggle here. I owe you and the rest of the DB clan for getting me this far. I'll pay that forward when the time is right for me.

I am glad my questions got you to open up. The questions I asked were just curiousity and nothing major. Just trying to get a better feel for your situation .

I don't have time to comment on everything you wrote,so I'll just mention your realisation about the finish line. I agree and disagree.dB and our improvements are ongoing for life, so they should be continuous.I think that our M should be seen more as a stage event. Once one stage is completed we continue onto the next.

Glad you are having fun


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together