I'll also echo that 'owning' your portion of the issue is huge. Only last month did I have my own personal epiphany about how my actions contributed to the issues in our MR. It was a turning point.
You CAN and WILL thrive when this storm/season is over. As my mother would say, 'This too shall pass'.
It will PASS. It will not erase the hurt, or the fond memories...but the storm will pass. Keep your head up!
Ojap M 13 T 15 D 11 D 11 D 9 BD #1: ILYBNILWY 09/2015 BD #2: W asks for S 12/2015 ---------- Currently: Limbo