Not sure where to stand

[Vanilla]

Thank you for the clarification. My WH never brought an OW to the big house although he did bring her to the holiday flat.

Then denied it.

There can be great stability issues for those with anti social tendencies mainly because of their rebellious streak, usually they need a come to Jesus revaluation.

Can you list your goals more fully?

How far are you with your studies?

What type of counselling?

Why do you think you fell for this BF?

As always it's ok to say no V and not to answer.

V