I also forgot to add that Wonka advised me to seek support from the UK equivalent of the DV service. I did so and it was part of my re-education on abuse.

It wasn't something I wanted to know or accept. I stayed in a very serious abuse sitch for two and half years and would have continued to stand for a very long time further.

In the end WH got petulant and left, he wanted me to crawl and ask him to stay as I had done for so in the past. I have to say his behaviour was much like your WH, entitled and controlling.

He still tries to control V.

It isn't good news at all.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW