Since status quo has been going on for long time I have definitely lost some of the energy that I had at first for GAL and keeping 360 advice.

this new state where she is sleeping on couch indefinitely is now becoming new normal, and this is not ok with me, I can't live my life expecting her to find a job and move out (or get on with her life, or for her to decide to try something to save marriage)

Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room