You set the dynamics of your R as an open R with a bf, and set 'rules' for how this should work. These rules were 'breached' by your bf and as a result you separated. I hope I have this correctly. Your bf has been to prison for giving an underage girl drugs and has fought the system because its in his nature. Clearly restrictions and compliance with'rules' aren't his forte.
Do you want an open R?
Sparks this is a site dedicated to repairing M and R. The essence is the antithesis of an open R. For me the stance on this is to stand and repair myself to make a healthy R possible in the future.
What exactly are you seeking to achieve? What are your goals?
I read some sensible and very grounded posts from you on a couple of threads and can observe that you have a great attitude to DB.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
