Ghost Busting Round Six - it's about me

[ATPeace]

So things seem to have settled at home

I have been in a better frame of mind

I have been thinking a lot about many things and the bottom line is everything is happening and I am unable to stop it.

My W tells me that for the past 8 months we have tried it my way and now we should try something different

My thoughts are yes we have tried in house separation however her mindset has been one of I am done with the marrage and i am not going to work on trying to make things better between us

So a question do I just agree now to stick the house in the market I can see that life is going to be so much more of a struggle but this is what she wants.

Another question is to do with her working she works nights and if we agree a 50-50 split with the child care this might involve me having the kids monday tuesday Wednesday and half of Thursday ...and she has them for the other days what happens when her job changes and then she needs to work lets say mon tues Wednesday and Thursday nights or even a five night job then she will want me to have the children the extra nights so she can go an earn some extra money or what if she decides that she also wants to go out clubbing in the 6 th night will she expect for me to have the children the 6th night as well and if I say no then she puts them with child care how am I going to feel then with my children being cared for by a stranger.

For the love of the children I still want to work this out but it is too far gone

It really is what it is

Sorry mainly venting but the question keep spinning arround I my head

Thanks for looking in

Ghost