He sounds like he could be depressed or having mlc. He sounds like my H. I've tried to reach out kindly and compassionately but he still reacted by withdrawing. So, I really do think, based on my experience and the mistakes I've made, I would give him the space he needs.

I would also focus on you. What are you doing to GAL? What are your 180's you are working on or your goals? I think it will be easier for you to give him time and space he needs while you take the opportunity to be the best you. I hope that makes sense. Whatever you invest in yourself now will pay off in the future whether you reconcile or not.

Thinking of you.

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16