I have had that fear though. W asserts that the flirty texts were from an 'older' guy who has the reputation of being 'that guy'.
Example text: (not verbatim, but close)
Colleague: Let's run away to Key West forever. Drinks on the beach, etc. Wife: C'mon, I bet you say that to all the girls.
However...W is very invested in her new friendship (though she states she hasn't discussed any of our details about our MR with her). She will spend the night there after going out with her work friends (who I don't know and haven't been invited to be a part of...). I will say that new friend was instrument in convincing W she needed to get some help for her depression...I am thankful for that.
Ojap M 13 T 15 D 11 D 11 D 9 BD #1: ILYBNILWY 09/2015 BD #2: W asks for S 12/2015 ---------- Currently: Limbo