Sandi's Reflections

[daybyday]

Thanks Sandi.No, no change suddenly. Yes heart closed to me. Reasons sort of based on selfishness. Not all about her, but little interest otherwise. No to taking her anger out on me. Phone is sometimes left next to me on the couch when she leaves room. Sex life was not good. Had been 1 1/2 years (red flag).No disrespect or put down in front of others. Does have resentment but she has told me why and they seem reasonable to me. Some interest in me but not as much as earlier in our marriage.No longer seems sad or hopeless after bomb. Hurt and disappointed before but not after bomb. She has said she just doesnt want to be married anymore because she doesnt like me anymore. Said i was mean so on so on. I do feel that we didnt resolve issues in 2008. She has mentioned that we have a codependent R and she had made excuses for me for a long time. Said she has no more fight as we would just end up right back here again.