Got served in January. It gets better- trust me. You are a few steps behind her when you get the papers. Time to catch up. Tough things to think about, but you need to: child placement, where the $$$ is, where it's going to go, kid's assets, 401k money contributions, parenting plan, etc.
What do you WANT? And what can you live with? Make a list of those things.
You can only control what is within you, your actions, and how you relate to your kids. I'd go absolutely, completely dark with the wife. Need to show how it will be divorced.
Complete GAL/DB'ing is now needed.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
