I am so sorry you got the papers. It was such a nosedive for me when they came - one of the worst days (along with the bomb drop and finding out about A). And, I can tell you I begged and pleaded after they arrived for a reconciliation and it made it worse. I am right there with you - it feels very final when those papers come especially because my H has an OW like your W has OM. But, I still have hope. Trying to focus on db'ing for myself though and moving away from the hope. But, I know that will take a lot of time. Hope spending time with D3 makes you feel better. Thinking of you.
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
