That sounds like a truly awful situation. I am so sorry that your WAH isn't being forthright about the finances or property. And, I feel absolutely horrible about the situation with your children. I am relatively new to this board, but I just wanted to throw some support your way and say that I am so glad that your kids have you to be a stable and loving parent. Stay strong for you and for them.
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16