So here is my take on no contact. It is not to make it look like you don't want to talk to them because you are so hurt. This may be the case and help you heal but not supposed to come across to them that way.
It is that you are so tied up living your life and giving them what they want that you are just out of the way. Interactions are fine if they are initiated by them. Stick to your rules. Make it brief. Deal with what needs to be dealt with. Be upbeat and handle it then on your way. You don't need to reach out for things unless there is an actual need. Not one just for an excuse for contact.

Now if you plan on being friends after this is all done then by all means do what you have to do but this is my take.


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15