Thank Shotgun for checking on me. I'm not blissfully happy yet but I'm on the way. Interaction with STBXH is to a minimum and I'm fine with it. Won't lie by saying that I don't think about him but at least it's not 24/7. No timeline for my D as he said he would file when the house is sold. I'm looking into moving to new house in the summer, later than I wanted. Looking back what are few more months of waiting when I have a whole new life ahead of me!
So i know that this summer I'll get the papers, and to be honest I'm fine with it. I survived a year of hell ( to me it was, whereas for other it's just a break up!), and I have proven to myself that I don't need him to carry on living!
Got into an interesting chat with a colleague, I'm not glad that I got cheated on, although I realised that I needed an electroshock to make me reevaluate my life and to do a 180 with my previous life. It's not easy everyday as I can see the old me trying to creep back in and I'm doing my best to keep her at bay.
