I hesitate to change anything on the credit cards. We actually have two together. One i'm the prime holder on (joint cc) and one she is -- she uses it for personal stuff and it pays for half of our athletic club membership. I just don't want to change that yet. Heck, I haven't even changed my mailing address. I don't know why she hasn't asked me to, or why when she brought me some of my mail she didn't bring it all. Is it wishful thinking that she doesn't want to change anything either?

I'm going to wait another day to send the text about the cc. Thanks for your help with the script, Wonka. It's been just one week since I told her to leave me alone, but please leave the check... and I'm NOT giving her my address. I don't want her to see or know where I live.

Now Wonka, I wish I could tell YOU where I live. Or that you could find me on Fb...

11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat