There are tons of support groups out there. To me it sounded as though Red had some safety issues she was concern with. In that case there is a group in my area (but I think they may be national) called Women in Transition. The best part about them is they will file PFAs for women and the courts take it quite seriously coming from them. However, even if there is not one of those is Red's area or she is not really that fearful of what may happen, then there are groups for those who have been emotionally abused or separated/divorced. By the sounds of it Red needs to feel empowered again!
Red your sitch [censored] big time!! He just happens to be behind you while your driving and then calls you. Dear he called you to make sure you knew he was behind you. He did it to intimidate, scare or annoy you. Either way, it is not ok. He is talking to OW to get a reaction from you. NOT OK. While I cannot advise you as well as many others on this forum, IMHO you need to do something, a support group may be the second step after this forum. Please one of you vets have to have something a bit more insightful than I have.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
