Sandi, a question about how WAW may feel. Still in same house (at the moment) and am wondering about making plans such as seeing movie, out to eat etc. Do you think the WAW gets a sense of relief when we make plans without them or are we supposed to try to include them in our plans. Don't want to be seen as pursuing when I am just asking if she wants to go along with S and I. if she says no, we are still are doing it.
I am also having a heck of a time identifying my wife. Is she WW or just WAW. I was here 8 years ago and she was WW with known EA. This time it seems different but there are different dynamics at play also. She doesn't go out much, the last time she did. She still comes to me to talk about stuff, the last time she didnt. But, she has to have thought of life without me and I am sure she would not be celibate so wouldn't that classify her as WW. Are there degrees of WW or is this just the start.She wanted D right off the bat but I was able to talk her off of the ledge. I suggested sep. She agreed, but has still not found a place. I just hate to be applying WW Db'ing to a legitimate WAW who is just done with trying to fix. I would love to hear your take.
Last edited by Cadet; 02/24/1606:49 AM. Reason: combine posts
Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.
Me-50 WAW-45 S13 Married 24 years Bomb 1-Jan.2008 Disc. EA She came back for 8 years Bomb 2-Jan-2016 Separation 3-12-2016
