Originally Posted By: LITB


You mentioned that you feel a lot of resentment towards your W. That is part of the journey. It is good to process those feelings. Just don't live there. You are essentially giving her control over your emotions when you allow yourself to remained filled with negative feelings. Choices my friend. You choose to be better or you choose to be bitter.

How is you GAL going? What are you plans going forward?



LITB/Thorton----thanks.....appreciate the feedback

Gal is going well. Just need to be more engaged when GAL'ing and not thinking and talking about my sitch...its detracts from the fun.

I really have lost a ton of respect in the last month for her that I will never get back. I always try to look forward but she has said some real hurtful stuff.

Can't believe your sitch LITB looking thru your stuff again. You are a strong person to be able go thru what you have. I just can't fathom my sitch ever turning around as we head to D and she has gotten nasty.

Just trying to move on but as you all know its hard. Days I just scratch my head and cry....days I can't wait to be out of the bees nest


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Me-48
Spouse-WAW 52
Married for 10 years
D7
ILYBNILWY 7/15
Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial
She files 1/2016
Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....