Say nothing. Ignore him. That's how you back away slowly. Act as if what he does doesn't matter. He's not done with you yet, Red. Don't lie. Except don't tell him you knew he was behind you. And if he says so, say, "Oh, really? I didn't notice."
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat