Yesterday she came home depressed with suicidal thoughts.

She has this suicidal thoughts from time to time, and this time probably her inability to move away from me is what has triggered it (with PMS as usual culprit).

She still has not found job, in last 2 months she has sent 12 applications. I was amazed. How someone who is adult and wants to live on her own can be so delusional, that with only 12 applications in 2 months she can even think of getting more than 2 interviews (which she had...)

Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room